Posted on January 7th, 2011 in Featured, The Life by Bella
1. What’s your real name?
I can understand this question being asked after you have built a relationship as a customer with a dancer. However, too often is it the first question asked. I can usually move past the question with a giggle and sweet comment that indicates it’s none of their business. If they push the issue, I will use a very common name that starts with the letter of my real name. So you’ve accomplished absolutely nothing by asking me this. Congratulations, sir. Read more
Posted on November 15th, 2010 in Featured, Music Monday by Bella
I’ve been watching a lot of the show Weeds lately. I heard this song on there and immediately wanted to dance to it. It’s called Ganja Babe, by Michael Franti. It’s very sultry and sexy. I loved dancing to it, so I thought I’d share it with you ladies. Enjoy. Read more
Posted on October 26th, 2010 in Featured, Tales from the Couch by Bella
I danced for a bachelor recently, who ended up making a comment that made me want to seek and destroy every man who puts the pleasure of his penis above all else.
In the beginning of my conversation with this gentleman (we’ll call him Justin), he seemed like a pretty cool guy. He spoke very highly of his soon-to-be wifey. He put a high emphasis on how much he loved her. We laughed and joked and talked for a bit before I started dancing for him. I was happy for Justin. He seemed really happy to be getting married to this girl. Read more
Posted on August 17th, 2010 in Do & Don't, Featured by Brandy
DO have respect for yourself, your fellow dancers, and your club.
Most of us may have had presumptions of how strippers “are” or what they “do.” Once we understood the industry & people we work with, we realized that there is SO much more to exotic dancing than shaking your booty & taking our clothes of. We are REAL people & women who should respect themselves & don’t let ANYONE (customers or even co-workers) put you down & make you feel like less of a person. We’re here to entertain, look sexy, and be hot! Yes, we are a fine piece of meat, but we’re no free buffet! Let that natural inner essence flow through & out of you because you are THE woman & you want everyone to see & feel that – even before you start talking or touching. Read more
Posted on August 6th, 2010 in Featured, The Life by Bella
We’ve all seen them. Peering down on us from freeway billboards, backs of pornographic magazines and driving by us on taxi cabs. Strippers in print. Advertised with the clubs they supposedly work at. When I was a little girl, I remember looking at these women with intrigue. I day dreamed of how these sexy women must live the most fascinating and exciting lives. Read more
Posted on August 2nd, 2010 in Featured, Music Monday by Bella
There’s nothing quite as empowering for a woman as putting on a tall, sexy pair of stilettos. This song, Stiletto Sex by Myah Marie, is one of my new favorites. It’s very sexy to dance to. Hope you all enjoy it as much as I do. Read more
Posted on July 23rd, 2010 in Featured, Tales from the Couch by Bella
I highly doubt I’m the only stripper that has to deal with men whispering their filthy fucking porn jabber sweet nothings in my ear during a lap dance. I know it doesn’t really bother some girls, and some even talk back as part of their money making strategy. I don’t judge, nor care, but I am not one of those girls. Dirty talk during a lap dance makes me as uncomfortable as a whore in church. Especially when their breath is as fucked off as a burning turd wrapped in hair. Read more
Posted on July 17th, 2010 in Featured, The Life by Bella
I walked into the locker room of our strip club the other night, only to be confronted by a platinum blonde in a string bikini and stilettos. She approaches with a stern look on her face, points her finger and threatens, “You better start writing some blogs, bitch, or I’m taking you off my favorite pages”. I burst out laughing. So here you go, Karma. A blog post, ode to you.
Let me tell you about two strippers that instantly bring a smile to my face when I see them: Karma and Sensation. Karma and Sensation are best friends. They are the reason I smile at work. Read more
Posted on July 15th, 2010 in Featured, The Life by Bella
Most strippers are going to relate with me on this topic: Depositing an obscene amount of singles into the bank. There’s nothing quite like “Mary Jo” the teller furrowing her brow at you and reaching for the Germ-X when you whip out $630 in one dollar bills. As she stares at my platinum blonde hair and 34D’s, we both know, I’m not a fucking waitress. Read more
Posted on July 13th, 2010 in Do & Don't, Featured by Brandy
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